Bear Okoye

  • Full Name: Isaac Chinedu Okoye
  • Birthdate: 1967-03-12
  • Birthplace: Houston, Texas
  • Nicknames: Bear
  • Callsign: Balu
  • Height: 6’3″
  • Weight: 220 lbs
  • Hair: Black
  • Eyes: Brown
  • Ethnicity: Nigerian-American
  • Sexuality: Heterosexual
  • Tattoos: None — not a fan of needles unless he’s holding the syringe
  • Early Life:
    • Parents:
      • Chukwudi Matthew Okoye (b. 1940 d. 2005)
      • Ifeoma Grace Okoye (b. 1945)
  • Languages: English, Igbo, Spanish
  • Religion: Raised Catholic, transitioned toward a personal blend of faith and philosophy rooted in Nigerian spiritual traditions and humanist psychology
  • Education:
    • Houston Independent School District (class of 1985)
    • University of Southern California (class of 2009)
      • Degree: B.A. Psychology
  • Career:
    • United States Army (1985–2005); MOS: 68W – Combat Medic
      • Served in multiple theaters: Panama, Somalia, Kosovo, early Iraq
      • Ranked Sergeant First Class (SFC) at retirement
    • Licensed Trauma Counselor specializing in veterans, burn survivors, and abuse survivors
  • Notes:
    • Met Scout Dixon** in early 2010 during her outpatient burn recovery
    • She resisted therapy; he didn’t push. Instead, offered silence, honesty, and unspoken permission to feel without breaking
    • Became her most trusted civilian contact — not because he tried to “fix” her, but because he didn’t try to force anything
  • Casting: Winston Duke

Personality Trivia

  • Archetype: ISFJ (The Defender)
  • Core Energy: The Quiet Harbor
  • D&D Alignment: Lawful Good
  • Defining Virtue & Vice: Weathered Empathy & Weight of Witness
  • Enneagram Type: 9w1 (The Idealist)
  • Hogwarts House: Hufflepuff
  • Spirit Animal: Bear
  • Theme Song: “What a Wonderful World” by Sam Cooke